As we encounter each of life’s difficulties, we get to choose:
Consider ourselves cursed or mistreated, as if we are owed freedom from hurt, pain or confusion. As if life owes us happiness. As if we are meant to be in control of everything. This is, essentially, a fight against life as it is.
Or draw on difficulty as part of life’s path, an opportunity to turn more deeply into life rather than away from it.
And while, with each successive difficulty or joy, we find that we understand life’s movement less and less, perhaps this way we learn to live it more and more.