The problem with being sure of your story – the one you have that explains to you who you are, who other people are, and what’s happening – is what is inevitably left out.
Your confusion, longing, terrified waking in the quiet hours of the night, your disorientation –
A sign that it’s all over, and that you’re lost?
An inevitable part of the human condition (experienced by many more of us than will ever let on)?
The birth-pangs of something new? Some new way of living, thinking and relating that is emerging into life?
Each story about what you’re experiencing leads to a different place, to different possibilities.
Each story calls on a different way of relating to yourself and others.
Each story is sustained by different practices (what you’re doing repeatedly in your actions, your thinking that keeps it going).
And none of them is ever the whole story.
Part of the practice of a life fully lived – and leadership well done – is the practice of finding new ways of telling what we’re sure we’ve already understood.