Careful and care are quite different from one another, but we often confuse them.
waiting until conditions are just right
being nice rather than genuine
saying what’s expected, what’s socially acceptable
protecting yourself – for the benefit of whom exactly?
coming in close
acting when it’s needed
being kind, which sometimes requires sharpness
saying what will actually help, teach, free people up
dropping your defences so you can be of assistance
Careful keeps difficulty going when it feels too risky to act. Care does what it can to reduce it.
Careful twists the truth for its own ends. Care speaks it.
Careful is full of caution.
And care is full of contact.